Nancy Oden



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Nancy Oden

September 15, 1954 ~ May 10, 2020 (age 65)

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On May 3, 2020 Nancy Lynn Oden passed away peacefully from natural causes at her home. She was born in High Point, North Carolina on September 15, 1954. She is preceded in death by her parents, David and Bette Oden of High Point and her lifetime partner/soul mate, Peter Seiler. She is survived by her sister, Dianne Oden King and nephew, Reid King of Greensboro; cousins, Robert Freeston and Elen Freeston of New York; and John Oden of South Carolina.

With a nod to Nancy in heaven, let it be said that Nancy was nothing if not unique. From a young child, it was obvious that this little girl was going to be a rebel without a cause. 

Nancy graduated from East Carolina University with a degree in Parks & Recreation. She always said that she chose this major, not because of plentiful job opportunities at the time or money to be made in the profession, but because she believed it would afford her the most personal freedom while being able to pursue her passion for the outdoors during work hours. 

After graduation from ECU, Nancy took off across the country in her van, ready for whatever adventures might come her way with only her dog for company. Some months later, just in time for her only nephew’s appearance into the world, Nancy returned to North Carolina. She soon chose a job in the interior landscaping business and the rest is history. She was employed by Plants & Answers for many years and recently by Rolling Greens. She also established her own plant business, Innerscapes Tropical Interiors. 

Nancy was a lifelong avid seeker of spiritual truths. Her kind, fun-loving, and generous spirit were apparent to all who knew her. She had a hearty and contagious laugh that could rock the room and a sense of humor that was the same. Annual two-week family trips to the beach each year left her with a love of the coast but she was equally fond of the mountains. Nancy loved all things nature, especially animals. After getting on a horse at four years old and falling in love, she  finally had horses of her own as an adult. But more than anything else, she loved the many cats she had throughout her lifetime. She was a warrior spirit with disdain for authority of any kind, yet would give anyone the shirt off her back if they were in need. Her sister wishes to thank Vandorn Hinnant, Tracy Peck, and Gerald Shean for being such good, longtime friends to her as well as Judy Molodet at Rolling Greens. Ervin Leonard from Otto, North Carolina held a special place in her heart as well. Neither of them ever forgot their years at ECU together and Nancy was joyful about becoming reacquainted with him a few months before her passing.

Nancy: Reid and I will hold on to a lifetime of memories that time cannot dim. I will love you forever, Suedeline. Until we meet again …

There will be a Celebration of Life some time in the future.

Cremation arrangements entrusted to Triad Cremation & Funeral Service of Greensboro, NC.




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  • May 19, 2020
    Ervin Leonard says:
    Nancy was so special. She was one of those people you never forget. Her smile would melt your heart and was so infectious. We met at ECU and I never forgot her and often thought of her throughout my life. In March I thought of her again. I believe God sent me a message to find her again. We started to email back and forth reliving old memories and good times. I learned about her life since we last saw each other some 44 years ago. She walked to a different tune than most. And that smile.  We started to get to know each other again in a special way. Her messages were the highlight of any day they arrived. She made me feel like I was 16 again. We communicated about everything past and present. We traded pet stories and our experiences being bless to know such wonderful creatures.What was thrilling to me was thinking I was going to see her again in person.   We talked about me dropping by on my next trip to Greensboro the weekend of May 11th. We talked about her coming to my place in the mountains in the future. We traded photos and she loved photos of the distant mountain ridges and the local plants and flowers. She loved flowers. I had planned to take her a bouquet of Mountain Laurel blooms.Though I was never able to deliver the Mountain Laurels or see Nancy’s smile before she left I know I will see her again in Heaven. My heart is broken.

  • May 20, 2020
    Vickie Degges says:
    Nancy and I loved persimmons.  I was used to the small ones that fell off southern trees and we competed with the yellow jackets to pick them up off the ground when they fell.  Nancy showed me the biggest persimmon I have ever seen.  I did not believe her.  I should have.  She made some great persimmon pudding out of that huge persimmon,  She had that look and that laugh, at the absurdity, of it all with that keen observation of humanity.  We laughed together the rare times we saw each other.  And Nancy's hot tub was glorious, no chlorine! May Nancy's adventures continue, in those amazing places we go to next.  Best wishes always!

  • May 20, 2020
    Dianne Oden King says:
    "When you get to the end of all that you knowand it's time to step into the unknown,one of two things will happen:either you will be given something solid to stand onor you will be taught how to fly."I know you are flying, my sister. Godspeed.

  • May 23, 2020
    Vandorn Hinnant says:
    Some may know that Peter Seiler gave Nancy the nickname "Nancita". I added a capital C to it; NanCita. Nancy treated me as a true brother and our love for one another remains a constant in my heart. Since her departure from this world, I have felt the presence of her love increase in my awareness. One memorable dream experience was of her and Peter rejoicing in being together. Her heart energy was most powerful and her passion for TRUTH, BEAUTY, and GOODNESS unmistakably intense. One of our shared comic relief experiences is A HITCHHIKER's GUIDE TO THE GALAXY which i began to review a few months ago.

  • June 01, 2020
    Vandorn Hinnant says:
    Dianne,one of the special gifts Nancy bestowed upon me were the words of Carol Tiggs; "WE ARE MERE BUBBLES OF AWARENESS TOURING INFINITY." Long ago I created a color-filled drawing of a butterfly on a piece of art paper and wrote that quote beside the drawing.I gave Nancy that drawing and she lived with it for many years. One day, she offered it back to me and I received it. It is in my studio now and serves as yet another reminder of our love for one another.

  • June 26, 2023
    Anonymous posted an image:
    Mountain Laurel Flowers
    Mountain Laurel Flowers

  • June 26, 2023
    Anonymous posted an image:
    Soul is eternal on one grand tour...
    Soul is eternal on one grand tour...